Reading His Signals
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He Loves You
Most guys aren't romantics like in the movies, so any small gesture on their part is a big deal. You will know when it is love because he will give you his full attention when the two of you are together. You will catch him staring and smiling at you often. He will keep his guyness about him around his friends, but will soften when it's just the two of you.
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Wants to Kiss You
When a guy wants to kiss you, he will either just go for it or will do some trial runs. Meaning, when you two are playing around, he will see how close he can get to your face. If you don't push him away or freak out, then he will know he has been given the green light. Guys are trying to read your signals so that they don't look stupid.
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You're Annoying Him
If a guy is annoyed with you, he will be pretty blatant with his body language. He will most likely distance himself from you to avoid conflict. But if you push him into a corner, he will cross his arms, turn his body away from you, roll his eyes, and have a look of disgust on his face. A guy typically does not hide his negative feelings.
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Wants to Be Friends
Is he not getting the signals you are sending or is he purposely not returning them? Tricky question. Try throwing some obvious signals his way and if you get nothing in return, you may just need to ask him straight up. Honestly, sometimes guys don't get the signals, but if they want to stay friends they may be ignoring them on purpose. Tread lightly!
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Confused by You
If guys can't figure you out, then they won't even bother. Guys have a hard enough time trying to read signals that girls send. If a guy looks confused ... he's not playing. Guys will shrug their shoulders and look completely perplexed by girls at times. If a guy seems confused by you, then you need to be more clear about what you're saying.
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Doesn't Know You Exist
Guys tend to have busy lives and until they get older, girls really are not a part of that. If the guy you like waves to the person standing behind you as though you are invisible, then he doesn't know you exist. Let's just hope you haven't been waving back. If you want to get a guy's attention, you need to be confident. Introduce yourself or say hi.
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Not Listening to You
Ladies, you have to admit that you can go on and on sometimes. Guys have the ability to continue saying "yeah" and "uh huh" throughout the conversation while listening to a song on the radio or watching a TV show. You can tell by his lack of facial expressions or his "what?" responses when you ask him if he is listening to you that he is NOT paying attention.
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He'd Rather Be Watching Football
Let guys have "guy time." Guys don't want to go shopping and look through magazines at the new spring hairstyles. If your guy is zoning out, seems antsy, is cranky or has a face like a puppy that is sitting at a window watching all other neighbor pooches play outside ... then let him go hang with the guys. Then call your BFF.
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